Do the Hard Work

. .do the hard work of getting along with each other, treating each other with dignity and honor.

James 3:18(TM)

Why can't we all just get along? Rodney King's question can be answered biblically - we all don't get along because "getting along with each other" is "hard work". We can all get along with each other if we are willing to do the hard work of exhibiting these two qualities:

1) Consideration. The only way to avoid "difficult" people is to leave the planet. Difficult people usually have unhealed emotional wounds and deep insecurities which result in irritating mannerisms, poor social skills. They are what Bob Gass calls "EGR people" - Extra Grace Required! Get to know where these people are coming from. Once you know what they have been through you will be more nderstanding. True fellowship happens when people know they can share their doubts and fears without being rejected or ridiculed.

2) Humility. Pride builds walls, humility builds bridges. Humility is the oil that soothes relationships. Humility is developed by admitting our own weaknesses, opening ourselves to correction, being more patient, and helping others grow. Paul instructs us to "Live in harmony.Don't try to act important.enjoy the company of ordinary people...don't think you know it all!" (Romans 12:16 NLT). and ". . .give more honor to others than to yourselves. Do not be interested only in your own life, but be interested
in the lives of others" (Philippians 2:3-4 NCV). Humility is not thinking less of yourself - humility is thinking of yourself less.

We can "all get along" but it takes God's grace and our best efforts. Hard work is necessary but not enough. Fortunately God's grace is available to all!

"You are joined together with peace through the Spirit, so do all you can to continue together in this way" (Ephesians 4:3 NCV).

(c)2006 Timothy L. Hudson, UGA Christian Campus Fellowship